do not use words like whitelisting

docs/reference/operator_parameters.md

@@ -184,7 +184,7 @@ CRD-configuration, they are grouped under the `major_version_upgrade` key.
   Note, that with all three modes increasing the version in the manifest will
   trigger a rolling update of the pods. The default is `"off"`.
 
-* **major_version_upgrade_team_whitelist**
+* **major_version_upgrade_team_allow_list**
   Upgrades will only be carried out for clusters of listed teams. The default
   is empty which means a team filter is not applied.
 

docs/user.md

@@ -603,10 +603,9 @@ spec:
 ```
 
 Some extensions require SUPERUSER rights on creation unless they are not
-whitelisted by the [pgextwlist](https://github.com/dimitri/pgextwlist)
-extension, that is shipped with the Spilo image. To see which extensions are
-on the list check the `extwlist.extension` parameter in the postgresql.conf
-file.
+allowed by the [pgextwlist](https://github.com/dimitri/pgextwlist) extension,
+that is shipped with the Spilo image. To see which extensions are on the list
+check the `extwlist.extension` parameter in the postgresql.conf file.
 
 ```bash
 SHOW extwlist.extensions;