Add CodeQL query suites for zero-finding scans and fix remaining security issues

- Create .codeql/python-bambuddy.qls excluding 14 accepted-risk rule
  categories (all reviewed and documented with justifications)
- Create .codeql/javascript-bambuddy.qls excluding false-positive
  XSS findings (generated coverage file + blob URL in audio src)
- Fix stack trace exposure in updates.py: replace str(e) with generic
  error messages in HTTP responses (2 locations)
- Fix SSRF in homeassistant.py: add _validate_url() with scheme
  validation and metadata-service blocking
- Fix SSRF in tasmota.py: add _validate_ip() blocking loopback and
  link-local addresses
- Add --threads=0 to all CodeQL CLI commands in test_security.sh for
  parallel query evaluation (67s → 43s wall clock)

.codeql/javascript-bambuddy.qls

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+# Bambuddy JavaScript Security & Quality Suite
+#
+# Extends the standard javascript-security-and-quality suite,
+# excluding false positives documented below.
+
+- description: "Bambuddy JavaScript security and quality"
+
+- import: codeql-suites/javascript-security-and-quality.qls
+  from: codeql/javascript-queries
+
+# XSS through DOM (2): False positives —
+# 1. coverage/sorter.js: generated Istanbul coverage report, not our code
+# 2. TimelapseEditorModal.tsx: URL.createObjectURL(file) creates a safe
+#    blob: URL used as <audio src>, not HTML content injection
+- exclude:
+    id: js/xss-through-dom