This is intended to fix#1369 mostly for RunnerSet-managed runner pods. It is "mostly" because this fix might work well for RunnerDeployment in cases that #1395 does not work, like in a case that the user explicitly set the runner pod restart policy to anything other than "Never".
Ref #1369
The unregister timeout of 1 minute (no matter how long it is) can negatively impact availability of static runner constantly running workflow jobs, and ephemeral runner that runs a long-running job.
We deal with that by completely removing the unregistaration timeout, so that regarldess of the type of runner(static or ephemeral) it waits forever until it successfully to get unregistered before being terminated.
Since #1127 and #1167, we had been retrying `RemoveRunner` API call on each graceful runner stop attempt when the runner was still busy.
There was no reliable way to throttle the retry attempts. The combination of these resulted in ARC spamming RemoveRunner calls(one call per reconciliation loop but the loop runs quite often due to how the controller works) when it failed once due to that the runner is in the middle of running a workflow job.
This fixes that, by adding a few short-circuit conditions that would work for ephemeral runners. An ephemeral runner can unregister itself on completion so in most of cases ARC can just wait for the runner to stop if it's already running a job. As a RemoveRunner response of status 422 implies that the runner is running a job, we can use that as a trigger to start the runner stop waiter.
The end result is that 422 errors will be observed at most once per the whole graceful termination process of an ephemeral runner pod. RemoveRunner API calls are never retried for ephemeral runners. ARC consumes less GitHub API rate limit budget and logs are much cleaner than before.
Ref https://github.com/actions-runner-controller/actions-runner-controller/pull/1167#issuecomment-1064213271
This eliminates the race condition that results in the runner terminated prematurely when RunnerSet triggered unregistration of StatefulSet that added just a few seconds ago.
Enhances runner controller and runner pod controller to have consistent timeouts for runner unregistration and runner pod deletion,
so that we are very much unlikely to terminate pods that are running any jobs.